finally i did it. i could not find anybody with an original charger, so i did dismantle the gomadic sync cable and noticed that pins 21,22 are connected with usb pins 7,8 and that the power from the jack leads to pins 21,22 only.
all i did was cutting the 21,22 and 7,8 connection. pluged in and the flash was successfull.
now i can play with replacing the harddrive for a flashdrive.